“Choice — that word means a lot here,” said Snyder, 28, a former Navy bomb-disposal expert. 

“‘Choice’ puts everything on a level playing field. Each of us faces a plethora of daily choices — when to get up, what to eat for breakfast, what to say to your family before leaving for work. You can choose to be positive. Or you can choose to be a victim.

“You can choose to move forward with grace. Or you can choose to succumb to negativity.”

"The thing is that there are NO right or wrong choices, they are just choices, you will never know what’s best in a long run anyway."